Reconciling your homosexuality with your heart's desire to be right with God is not a big problem IF you start by reading scripture in context. Only when you isolate a few verses from their context do you run into problems.
In your original question, I believe you make several incorrect assumptions. First, you say "I know God is not pleased" with same sex relationships. For you to truly know that, there would have to be verses which in context, say that. I am not aware of any verse of scripture in the Bible which in context, says that.
Second, you ask, Can I truly be delivered from something I love and God hates? Again, the problem is when we read the Bible in context, it never says that God hates same sex relationships.
It can be difficult to separate in our minds what is true conviction from the Holy Spirit based on what scripture says in context and what is a negative attitude inculcated by false teaching in the church.
People who grew up in Bible preaching churches were taught that God hates homosexuality, period, end of discussion. That was drilled into us to such a degree that it is ingrained in our psyche as if it is the command of God.
Once we take the time to study the clobber passages in context (you can do that by clicking on any NavBar button under, What The Bible Says), we discover those passages prohibit shrine prostitution but they do not address or prohibit committed, faithful, same sex partnerships.
"In a nationally representative study of young adults, just under 80 percent of unmarried, church-going, conservative Protestants who are currently dating someone are having sex of some sort."
"Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.
Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.
For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace." -Romans 6:11-14, KJV
"I really believe that I am a Christian and that God loves me, however I want to be right with God. I struggle with homosexuality, and it has gotten to the point that I don't feel bad when I am with someone of the same sex, although I enjoy being intimate with him but I know GOD is not pleased. Can I truly be delivered from something that I love and God hates?"