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Isn't the Bible pretty clear that gay marriage is wrong?

by Ling
(southeast USA)

Ancient Scroll

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Rick Brentlinger Answers -


I think you've asked a fair question which deserves an unequivocal response. The answer is NO, to be perfectly honest, the Bible is not clear that gay marriage is wrong. None of the Bible passages alleged to condemn gay marriage was addressing the topic of gay marriage. Our basic rule of hermeneutics (how we interpret the Bible) is:

Scripture cannot mean now
what it did not mean then.

If the Bible was not addressing the topic of gay marriage then when it was originally written, the Bible is not addressing the topic of gay marriage now.
  1. Genesis 1:27 and 2:24 - about the marriage of Adam and Eve - is not about gay marriage.

  2. Genesis 19 - about the men of Sodom attempting to gang rape angels - is not about gay marriage.

  3. Leviticus 18:22 and 20:13 - about shrine prostitution - is not about gay marriage.

  4. Deuteronomy 23:17-18 - about shrine prostitution - is not about gay marriage.

  5. Matthew 5 and 19 and Mark 10 - where Jesus discusses divorce - are not about gay marriage.

  6. Romans 1:26-27 is not about gay marriage.

  7. 1 Corinthians 6:9 and 1 Timothy 1:10 - where Paul alludes to rape and dealers in sexual slaves - are not about gay marriage.

  8. Jude 5-7 - where Jude condemns sex with angels - is not about gay marriage.

"Scripture only settles matters
about which it speaks plainly."


-Richard Hooker, 1554-1600,
Anglican theologian


It is dishonest to rip verses out of context as most anti-gay Christians do and attempt to deceive GLBTs by alleging the out of context verse addresses something it never addressed in context, gay marriage.

Honest people don't misuse scripture that way.

Comments for
Isn't the Bible pretty clear that gay marriage is wrong?

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Sep 25, 2010
What do you think of christians that come out of the gay lifestyle?
by: Anonymous

I've actually been listening to p4cm's exhomosexual ministry and many of them or all of them were lesbians and gays and have come out of it.

When we come into the faith, we understand what Christ has done on the cross for sinners, aren't we taking up our cross by crucifying the old self and the fleshly desires daily? When we come to Christ and we want to give up everything for him doesn't that include our worldly desires?



Sep 25, 2010
You have a fundamental misunderstanding
by: Rick Brentlinger

You have a fundamental misunderstanding of what it means to be gay or lesbian. Many anti-gay Christians believe, falsely, that being gay is a choice. The truth is, being gay is as integral a part of our being as you being heterosexual is an integral part of your being.

You never made a choice to be heterosexual.

We never made a choice to be homosexual.

Almost every Christian who claims to have left the gay lifestyle admits to still struggling with same sex longings. Even Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International admits he still struggles with desires to be with a man instead of a woman.

If ex-gay "ministries" really worked, if being gay was simply a choice, if people could really change by simply making up their mind to change, then the anti-gay crowd might have a valid point.

But the evidence is overwhelmingly against the anti-gay position. Change ministries don't work.

People who were gay do not become "straight."

Homosexuals do not become heterosexuals.

I encourage you to explore our NavBar. Click on Exodus International and discover their spectacularly unsuccessful track record.

Finally, you talk about crucifying the old self and our fleshly desires daily. You seem to equate that with gays and lesbians becoming celibate.

Just for the record, although many gays and lesbians do live celibate lives, God does not require all gays and lesbians to be celibate.

How would you feel if a bunch of Christians you don't know and who don't know you insisted that YOU must live a celibate life, never marrying, never knowing the joy of an intimate partner? I think you would be insulted by their arrogance.

It is wrong to put a yoke on the neck of your gay brothers and lesbian sisters which you yourself are unwilling to bear, Acts 15:10.

Dec 21, 2010
What about Romans 1?
by: Anonymous

Can you give more analysis on the Romans 1 passage? All you say is that it is not about gay marriage. But if homosexual acts are condemned, then wouldn't the same be true for married gays who perform homosexual sex? I guess one could be gay and abstainant?

Dec 21, 2010
Glad to - here is much more detail
by: Rick Brentlinger

Great question. Here is a good starter page which contains lots of explanation plus many Links to additional information.

What is Romans 1 about?

Aug 06, 2011
Romans 1:24-32
by: Matt

I'm glad that you love the Lord and profess Him as your Lord and Savior, but I have to ask you to explain Roman 1:24-32. I don't believe that homosexual people are bad people or that God doesn't love homosexuals. But I do believe that we (everyone) has a sin that we look to justify instead of change. We love God and want to be closer to Him, but at the same time, we want to sin. So if you please, tell me your thoughts on this passage. Thanks and God bless

Sep 20, 2011
Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life
by: Anonymous

God is the living God and... Yes GOD does love gays, lesbian, homosexual... He loves us so much that he died on the cross for us even though he had a choice not to die, but you see after all we're here for a reason.

John 3:16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. I love jesus and I'm very thankful.

Nov 11, 2011
I need answers...again
by: Standing Straight For Gay Marriage

I came across Paul Cameron's Family Research Institute website and want your opinion on it. Are the percents, tests, and surveys relevant to same-sex marriage rights?; and are any of them incomplete, lacking elements, or flawed in any way?

Nov 11, 2011
This information will be helpful
by: Rick Brentlinger

This website evaluates Paul Cameron's dubious research and tainted scholarship.

Nov 11, 2011
Thanks
by: Standing Straight For Gay Marriage

Thanks :) This link did help.

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